While reading Moravia’s Agostino, the raw sexuality of the novella, and in particular, Agostino’s relationship with his mother stood out. Even when Agostino is confronted with his new friends, and the altered worldview which he learns and takes from them, it seems as if it is the mother who is still most important in his coming-of-age arc. The book begins and ends with sexualized descriptions and encounters with his mother, where he begins a boy, and leaves a “man”, or at least understands that he is beginning to become one.
While the boys he meets on the vacation further this newfound “manhood”, it’s catalyst is his mothers romantic “young man” who takes them out to sea on his boat daily. The jealousy, and unexpressed sexual tension between the three of them is characteristic of puberty and the sexual transformation Agostino is embarking upon.
The choice that Moravia makes to centre this around his mother is interesting, but not altogether novel. I knew of the Oedipus myth (where the son is prophesied to kill his father and marry his mother), and Freud’s “Oedipus Complex” (which follows a son’s rejection of his father over his mother), which is interesting, with no father in the story. Carl Jung took this further, writing on “Don Juanism”, where the son sees his mother in other women (as Agostino does in his encounter with the tempting women in it’s final scenes).
It is interesting, as the nurturing mother-son bonds which develop in childhood must be addressed and altered in puberty. Moravia attacks this head on, and Agostino attempts to navigate these changes as he grows. In this innocent relationship, it becomes clear that sexuality, lust, jealousy, and anxiety also blossom during Agostino’s coming-of-age, especially as the “real world” is opened up to him throughout his vacation.
Finally, to link it back to other American coming-of-age novels, I find this extremely interesting as American novels, such as Catcher In the Rye, or The Perks of Being a Wallflower, concentrate heavily on the friends and self dynamic, whereas this novel combines the three of Agostino, his friends and his mother. This creates a more complex growing period, and ultimately more complex and confusing themes of self and maturation, which I found to be more dynamic and interesting.
Questions:
Did you feel like the novel differed from “classic American” coming-of-age stories, and in what way?